We all have some strange, irrational obsessions, don’t we?
Having great personal style does not require an enormous walk-in closet full of fabulous clothes and accessories. In other words, a small wardrobe that I can see at a glance is all I need: if I can mix and match everything, what more could I possibly want?
Well, fabulous accessories, of course. But do I really need a different bag for every outfit, or each day of the week? Or would I be better off with accessories that go with anything? I think you know me well enough to say that buying less but buying better quality and wearing it forever will always be my answer to that question.
However, I have to admit that I don’t always take my own advice. And, I have some dark (style) secrets that go against everything I believe in. Yes, my dear reader, I don’t always practice what I preach…
I’m a (closeted) hoarder…
I have a secret obsession: I love, and collect, evening bags. I’m drawn to them like a moth to a flame: the smaller the bag and the more intricate the design, the more difficult it is to convince myself to just walk away.
I know it doesn’t make sense. For starters, I have absolutely no use for an evening bag. Ever. And can you think of a more impractical piece? Most evening bags are barely big enough to hold a credit card; forget trying to fit in your keys, a phone, or even a lipstick. And how are you supposed to carry this tiny, impractical item? If you’re lucky, it comes with a strap, but often you’re just supposed to carry it around in your hand.
from the top: 1) L.K. Bennett (old), 2) Rebecca Minkoff (old), 3) vintage satin evening bag
Of course, an evening bag can be very elaborate and decorative, like a piece of art. However, accessories are not art; they should be functional and serve a purpose. That’s my style philosophy: it makes no sense to spend money on something I never wear or use. And I certainly don’t have the closet space to store objects that never see the light of day.
Does this mean I’m willing to part with my (small) collection of evening bags? Hell, no! It just means that I shouldn’t be adding to it. Unless I plan to open a museum…
To steer my attention away from the really impractical (but oh-so-pretty) and useless tiny bags, every now and then I buy a clutch bag (with a detachable strap) with an interesting design. I think this is a good compromise: a clutch can be worn as an evening bag, but it should also hold the bare minimum of what a modern woman needs to carry with her (= a phone, keys, credit cards, some make up).
from the top (all old): 1) DvF, 2) Minna Parikka, 3) Minna Parikka
What about sustainability?
It makes no sense to buy things that just end up being stored away or, even worse, tossed on a whim. It also makes no sense to waste valuable raw materials on items that have no longevity.
Take leather, for example: an animal was killed to produce that handbag / jacket / skirt. And when you look at it that way, shouldn’t we treat the handbag / jacket / skirt with a bit more respect?
Now, I’m not advocating giving up leather or anything like that (and I admit that I have not only several leather bags and garments but also leather chairs and a leather sofa in my home). I’m simply saying that when we buy that leather handbag / jacket / whatever, we should be ready to keep it forever and take good care of it.
And yes, I’m aware that there are alternatives to leather.
But Hell will freeze over before I wear anything made from ‘fake leather’ (or ‘faux leather’, ‘leatherette, ‘pleather’, or whatever you want to call it). Let’s make one thing clear: ‘fake leather’ is just another name for plastic. And there’s nothing sustainable or ecological about plastic.
Fortunately, there are also sustainable and ecological alternatives for people who want to avoid animal products altogether. For example, the orange bag below was made from cork. Cork is impermeable, flexible, and moisture-resistant. In other words, a good alternative to leather if you want to make bags or wallets.
And there are also sustainable and ethical ways to source leather. For example, cutting waste from furniture industry can be used to make bags. Or, leather can be sourced from hunters: the burgundy bag below was made from elk leather (which is a by-product of elk population control hunting in Finland).
from the top: 1) Artipel, 2) Lovia Collection
What is your style obsession?
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